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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

Last Updated: 23.06.2025 03:48

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

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41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

How many women have accidentally pooped their pants and became turned on afterwards?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

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11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

What are some mind-blowing facts about Michael Jackson?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

What are some of the greatest marketing disasters in history?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

Nothing too Serious

Have you ever been forced to undress for money just once?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

Why does Filipino culture dictate that parents should be treated as gods?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

Is there a genre that combines elements of fantasy and science fiction, such as magic and advanced technology?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

What are the challenges associated with the birth narratives of Jesus?

Any that are a turn off?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

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(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

What is your favorite position? Why?

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Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

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Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

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92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

Family Relation Age Play

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

If you win, what will you make them do?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

Any that are a turn off?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

39~ What are your love languages?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

If yes, what?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

How old are you? Male or Female?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

The Ice Breaker Questions

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

Please share Did you stop?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

29- How superstitious are you?

52~ What are your hobbies?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

*** Random Questions ***

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

*** Questions About Me ***

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

Would you read them together?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?